at 8:42 pm last night this happened:
in our world of 24 hour media, i know that i’m late to the game in terms of a response; however i cannot move on without providing my own commentary.
apparently the author of the above has apologized, but said apology isn’t good enough for me.
you see, i have a little brown girl who is also 9 years old. and similar to quvenzhane’ she is creative, talented, audacious, and smart…all qualities that many women my age struggle to find and express, because we’ve been taught that its not okay.
this tweet above is communicating that her success, is not okay. that the success of a young brown girl is not okay. and instead of just lamenting that a young child is doing well…this person instead chooses the use of female genitalia (one often related to disgust) to get his point across.
while many have expressed their outraged for the onion’s tweet, i think its important to note that the above mentioned offense is nothing more than a very public display of the shaming and oppression that occurs daily in media, on tv, and throughout pop culture all together, of women and specifically women of color. its easy to speak out against something this big, but what about when it happens in a less obvious way?
the fact that this tweet received over 500 retweets and was favorited by over 400 others, has not gone unnoticed.
daily, i work hard to release my daughter and all girls from forced silence and shame imposed by our culture, and think its fair to expect the same from others…especially those who have the attention of a large portion of society; including that of little girls.
do better. and for god’s sake, stop playing around with the girl’s name. learn to say it.
haiku to white america and mainstream media
i would love to see
sometimes a reflection of
me staring at me